Let me just say it straight—when I first heard about the Abena Afro-Latina baddie sex doll, I kind of rolled my eyes.
There are so many “ultra realistic” dolls out there now, all promising to be life-changing or whatever, and then you get them and they’re either weirdly tiny or just off in a way that makes you want to shove them back in the closet. But this one—Abena—she’s 5 feet 3 inches tall (159 cm), which is honestly close enough to pass for a real person if your vision’s blurry or, uh, you’ve been up too late.
The Details People Actually Ask About
Everyone pretends they don’t care about specs but then those are always the first questions. So here we go: she weighs 73.8 lbs (33.5 kg). Not feather-light but not impossible if you need to move her around. The bust is H-cup (yeah, that’s big), with measurements at 34.9 inch bust, 22 inch waist, and 37.4 inch hips—which is basically the Instagram model body type people obsess over.
Cup size? H-cup. Shoe size? Women’s 6-6.5 (I guess someone cares about that). Oh—and her holes: vagina is 7 inches deep, anus is 5 inches, oral is also 5 inches. If you’re curious about those things for whatever reason.
Honestly… Does She Feel Real?
Here’s where I get skeptical again because every brand says “ultra realistic silicone sex doll” like it means something new each time. But the silicone on Abena actually feels kind of unsettlingly real when you touch it—not cold plastic or rubbery like some cheaper ones I’d rather forget about.
She’s got a steel skeleton with movable joints too; sometimes this makes positioning a bit awkward at first (you can hear faint clicks if it’s quiet), but after a while it feels almost normal? Or as normal as moving around a life size silicone sex doll can ever feel.
Shipping Was Weirdly Low-Key
One thing that did surprise me: shipping was totally discreet—literally no markings on the box except maybe some random code sticker nobody would notice unless they were looking for reasons to judge their neighbors’ packages (which… people do). Free international shipping sounded fake but yeah, three weeks later she showed up at my door after what felt like forever waiting.
Processing takes two or three weeks plus another week for actual delivery—that part dragged more than expected and made me keep checking tracking numbers like an obsessed parent waiting for their kid to come home from summer camp.
There Are Things They Don’t Tell You
No one really talks about how athletic these dolls look until they’re right in front of you—it hits different seeing curves and muscle tone molded into silicone instead of just flat surfaces or cartoonish shapes.
But here’s something nobody mentions: moving her isn’t as easy as picking up a pillow but also not impossible if you’re used to carrying groceries up stairs alone because your roommate never helps out (not projecting at all…). Sometimes she flops over weirdly when sitting down and you have to readjust everything again—a little annoying but whatever.
Is It Worth It?
Maybe That Depends On Your Mood
I’m not going to pretend this thing changed my life or anything dramatic like that; she doesn’t talk back or ask why there are five empty coffee cups next to your bed—but sometimes having something that looks and feels pretty close to human can be oddly comforting after a long day spent mostly staring at screens.
Then again there are days when having an ultra realistic silicone sex doll just standing in your room makes everything feel more surreal than sexy—I still haven’t decided which feeling wins out most nights.
It took me a while to appreciate the differences between various life size silicone sex dolls, but once you see a well-made one in person, the quality speaks for itself.
Anyway—I guess people who collect these things probably already know what they want out of them by now. For everyone else? Just know that Abena checks most boxes: athletic build, fit look, solid proportions—and yes, everything works as advertised even if it takes three weeks longer than Amazon Prime could ever dream of promising.
That’s pretty much all I’ve got before my brain checks out completely for tonight—maybe tomorrow I’ll figure out where exactly she fits into my apartment without scaring guests away.
