The Box (And All That Waiting)
It’s weird how you start thinking about the packaging before anything else. I mean, you’re not supposed to care, but when you order a life size silicone sex doll—especially one like the Nari Private Study model—you suddenly become obsessed with boxes. DiscreetPackaging, they say. No logos, no “hey look what’s inside!” labels. And yeah, that part is true. I got this plain box that looked like it could’ve had a lamp or some IKEA shelf in it.
But let me just get this out of the way: three to four weeks feels like forever when you’re waiting for something this… specific. Two weeks processing, another week for shipping (if you’re lucky). There was a moment where I thought maybe customs would open it up and just—nope, never mind.
First Encounter With 94 Pounds Of Reality
Here’s something nobody tells you: 94 pounds is heavy as hell when it isn’t moving on its own. Unboxing Nari felt less like opening a present and more like wrestling with an oddly lifelike sandbag in my hallway at 9pm on a Tuesday. Not exactly sexy.
Still, once she was upright (which took some effort), there was this moment of—hmm, disbelief? Her stats are all over the product page: 5 feet 3 inches tall (159 cm), thick H-cup breasts that don’t look cartoonish in person (surprisingly), hips wider than expected (honestly impressive), and legs that go on for days if you’re into that sort of thing. The tan skin tone looks more natural under soft light than in harsh daylight; learned that by accident.
Oh, right—the weight reduction option drops her down to around 76 pounds. If your back is questionable or your apartment has too many stairs… probably worth considering.
Movable Joints & Awkward Realizations
Steel skeleton with movable joints sounds great until you realize how much fiddling it takes to get things looking natural—or even remotely comfortable. I remember thinking she’d be poseable like an action figure or mannequin, but nope—it’s harder than Instagram makes it look.
Her arms bend fine, but sometimes the joints make little noises and it throws off the illusion for a second. Legs move better than expected though; long legs actually help with balance when standing her up against something sturdy (she doesn’t stand by herself).
Anyway—I guess what surprised me most was how much time I spent just trying to get her situated before anything else happened.
Details People Don’t Talk About
Let’s talk measurements because everyone online seems obsessed with them: Bust is nearly 38 inches; under bust is about 27 and a half; waist barely under 25 inches; hips almost 43 inches—those numbers sound wild until you see them in real life and then they somehow make sense?
Choosing among the many top-rated silicone sex dolls available today really comes down to personal preferences and priorities.
The hole depths are listed everywhere—vagina at 6.7 inches deep, anus at just over six and a half, mouth at five-ish—but honestly unless you’re measuring mid-use (who does that?) those numbers don’t matter as much as people think they do.
What did catch me off guard? The shoe size thing—women’s US 6-6.5 fits perfectly if for whatever reason dressing up your sex doll seems appealing after unboxing day two.
Is “Private Study” Just Marketing?
I have to ask: why call her “Private Study”? Maybe because she looks young but not too young? Or because she comes across as studious-brunette-with-big-boobs if such a category exists? Feels kind of arbitrary but I guess every brand needs their angle—and “study” probably sounds less weird than other options they could’ve gone with.
Tan skin tone + brunette hair = generic enough not to offend anyone but still eye-catching if left sitting on your couch accidentally when someone visits unexpectedly (not recommended).
What It’s Actually Like To Live With A Life Size Silicone Sex Doll
This part gets glossed over everywhere else: storage is tricky unless you have space—and privacy—for something human-sized and always there when you come home from work tired or whatever.
Cleaning isn’t fun either; nobody enjoys prepping warm water and antibacterial soap after use but here we are. Still beats feeling awkward about leaving evidence behind though.
She doesn’t judge or talk back which sounds good until the novelty wears off and then… well—I started using her mostly as expensive decor more often than not? Maybe that says more about me than about Nari specifically.
Shipping & The Dreaded Wait Again
Free international shipping sounded amazing until my tracking number stopped updating for five days straight somewhere between China and California—a minor panic ensued until UPS finally showed up unannounced one afternoon while my neighbor watched suspiciously from his porch swing.
Three weeks total from order confirmation to doorstep delivery—not awful given what it is—but still long enough to second-guess yourself multiple times along the way (“did I really need an H-cup sex doll?”).
Random Thought That Won’t Leave Me Alone
Weirdly enough—I keep thinking about how normal she starts to feel after awhile sitting quietly in the corner of my room wearing old pajamas no one else wanted anymore. Not sure if that means anything profound or just proves humans can get used to literally anything given enough time…
Anyway—that’s pretty much what stood out living with Nari around these past few months.
